Have had a couple of emails from someone who thinks they are a party to this conversation. The message is (paraphrasing) "You misconstrued me--I wasn't giving you disapproving looks because I'm offended by dump.fm, it was [for other reasons of a personal nature]. I have only been to dump a couple of times and I won't be going back! So stop misconstruing me. And also, you're triangulating by turning off your comments--the people who you don't mention by name have no way to respond."
and my favorite (still paraphrasing):
"Dump would have been invented eventually anyway. You need to stop pushing it so much."